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<p>Today is a very special day&#8230;we are celebrating the one-year anniversary of the My Refined Style Fashion Linkup&#8230;woot, woot! What a fabulous time we&#8217;ve had; coming together each month to rock our over-40 style. How I Refine My Style To celebrate the day I thought I would share the three<span class="excerpt-hellip"> […]</span></p>
<p>The post <a href="https://thefabjourney.com/2016/09/01/how-i-refine-my-style/">How I Refine My Style &#8211; My Refined Style Celebrates One Year</a> appeared first on <a href="https://thefabjourney.com">Shellie Bowdoin | The FABulous Journey</a>.</p>
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<p>Today is a very special day&#8230;we are celebrating the one-year anniversary of the My Refined Style Fashion Linkup&#8230;woot, woot! What a fabulous time we&#8217;ve had; coming together each month to rock our over-40 style.</p>
<h2>How I Refine My Style</h2>
<p>To celebrate the day I thought I would share the three essential elements that refine my style.</p>
<h3>1. I Know My Colors</h3>
<p><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-6194 size-full" src="https://www.thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Colors.jpg" alt="how I refine my style, I know my colors" width="1024" height="512" srcset="https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Colors.jpg 1024w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Colors-300x150.jpg 300w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Colors-768x384.jpg 768w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Colors-260x130.jpg 260w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Colors-50x25.jpg 50w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Colors-150x75.jpg 150w" sizes="(max-width:767px) 480px, (max-width:1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /></p>
<p>I am a true winter, which means I wear clear, unmuted colors. In fact, the more brilliant the color is, the more it suits my natural coloring. And yes, I wear A LOT of black. Again, pure black jives well with my coloring. Red is my <a href="http://makingmidlifematter.com/find-your-signature-color/" target="_blank">signature color</a>.</p>
<p>How about you&#8230;do you know your coloring? Wearing <a href="https://www.thefabjourney.com/wearing-color-over-40/">color over 40</a> immediately warms up your complexion.</p>
<h3>2. I Know My Shapes</h3>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-6195 size-full" src="https://www.thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Shapes.jpg" alt="how I refined my style, I know my shapes" width="1024" height="512" srcset="https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Shapes.jpg 1024w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Shapes-300x150.jpg 300w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Shapes-768x384.jpg 768w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Shapes-260x130.jpg 260w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Shapes-50x25.jpg 50w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Shapes-150x75.jpg 150w" sizes="auto, (max-width:767px) 480px, (max-width:1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /></p>
<p>I know my body, so I choose clothing styles to accentuate my best features. Although, I don&#8217;t seem like your typical petite I am actually short-waisted. I often shop for my tops in the petite section to keep the hemline from falling too low.</p>
<p>I also like to wear circle skirts. Circle skirts flatter many body shapes. I find the most flattering length is just below the knee cap. Likewise, I&#8217;m a major fan of the pencil skirt, which looks best when it tapers in below the knee. And oh, how I love a great pair of slim legged slacks!</p>
<h3>3. I Know My Vibe</h3>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-6196 size-full" src="https://www.thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Vibe.jpg" alt="how I refine my style, I know my vibe" width="1024" height="512" srcset="https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Vibe.jpg 1024w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Vibe-300x150.jpg 300w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Vibe-768x384.jpg 768w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Vibe-260x130.jpg 260w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Vibe-50x25.jpg 50w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/I-Know-My-Vibe-150x75.jpg 150w" sizes="auto, (max-width:767px) 480px, (max-width:1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /></p>
<p>I admire a myriad of different styles on other women, but I know my vibe and stick with what works for me. I prefer classic lines and feminine shapes. Often, I like to mix soft and hard elements.</p>
<p>When it comes to jewelry, I like metals and natural materials. Dainty jewelry doesn&#8217;t seem to work for me, so the bigger or clunkier it is, the more I like it. And, I&#8217;ve learned to rock my <a href="https://www.thefabjourney.com/is-it-time-to-take-your-reading-glasses-from-function-to-fashion/">reading glasses</a> over the last several years. Hey&#8230;if you&#8217;ve got to have them, they might as well be fabulous!</p>
<h3>My Refined Style Celebrates One Year</h3>
<p>The other hosts and I wanted to mark this anniversary edition of the My Refined Style Linkup with a special combined post. Each host picked a picture she thought best reflects her refined style. Also, we&#8217;re excited to introduce Trina as our new co-host.</p>
<p>Enjoy our special anniversary linkup!</p>
<p>Catch all my fashion posts by subscribing with your email in the right side bar of the blog/home page or <a href="http://www.bloglovin.com/blog/13695931/?claim=8u6u9w3j68k">Follow with Bloglovin’</a>! Also, check out the other fabulous fashion linkups I&#8217;m joining this week &#8211; <a href="https://www.thefabjourney.com/my-links/" target="_blank">My Linkups!</a></p>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="size-full wp-image-5805 alignleft" src="https://www.thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/Loving-It-2.jpg" alt="Loving It (2)" width="150" height="80" srcset="https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/Loving-It-2.jpg 150w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/Loving-It-2-50x27.jpg 50w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/Loving-It-2-141x75.jpg 141w" sizes="auto, (max-width:767px) 150px, 150px" /></p>
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<h4 style="padding: 5px;" align="center"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-6152 size-full" src="https://www.thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/How-these-women-over-40-define-and-refine-their-own-personal-style-fashion-over-40.jpg" alt="How these women over 40 define and refine their own personal style, my refined style, fashion over 40" width="735" height="1600" srcset="https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/How-these-women-over-40-define-and-refine-their-own-personal-style-fashion-over-40.jpg 735w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/How-these-women-over-40-define-and-refine-their-own-personal-style-fashion-over-40-138x300.jpg 138w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/How-these-women-over-40-define-and-refine-their-own-personal-style-fashion-over-40-470x1024.jpg 470w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/How-these-women-over-40-define-and-refine-their-own-personal-style-fashion-over-40-67x146.jpg 67w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/How-these-women-over-40-define-and-refine-their-own-personal-style-fashion-over-40-23x50.jpg 23w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/How-these-women-over-40-define-and-refine-their-own-personal-style-fashion-over-40-34x75.jpg 34w" sizes="auto, (max-width:767px) 480px, 735px" /></h4>
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<h4 style="padding: 5px;" align="center"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-6136 " src="https://www.thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/My-Refined-Style-Anniversary-Banner.jpg" alt="My Refined Style Celebrates One Year" width="1024" height="160" srcset="https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/My-Refined-Style-Anniversary-Banner.jpg 1024w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/My-Refined-Style-Anniversary-Banner-300x47.jpg 300w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/My-Refined-Style-Anniversary-Banner-768x120.jpg 768w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/My-Refined-Style-Anniversary-Banner-260x41.jpg 260w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/My-Refined-Style-Anniversary-Banner-50x8.jpg 50w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/My-Refined-Style-Anniversary-Banner-150x23.jpg 150w" sizes="auto, (max-width:767px) 480px, (max-width:1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /></h4>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">Monthly Fashion Over-40 Linkup.</h2>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #808080;">This month, the My Refined Style Linkup celebrates our one-year anniversary! We wanted to do a little something special, so we are each sharing the elements that refine and define our own personal styles! We are also happy to welcome a new host, Trina from Tea Time With Trina.</span></h4>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-6130 size-full" src="https://www.thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/My-Refined-Style-Hosts-Spring-Updated.jpg" alt="My Refined Style Hosts" width="1024" height="512" srcset="https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/My-Refined-Style-Hosts-Spring-Updated.jpg 1024w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/My-Refined-Style-Hosts-Spring-Updated-300x150.jpg 300w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/My-Refined-Style-Hosts-Spring-Updated-768x384.jpg 768w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/My-Refined-Style-Hosts-Spring-Updated-260x130.jpg 260w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/My-Refined-Style-Hosts-Spring-Updated-50x25.jpg 50w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/My-Refined-Style-Hosts-Spring-Updated-150x75.jpg 150w" sizes="auto, (max-width:767px) 480px, (max-width:1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>How Our Hosts Refine Their Style</strong></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;">Please Follow Your Hosts on their blog or Bloglovin&#8217; and/or their other social media links!</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><em>Shellie&#8217;s Style</em></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;">I am a major fan of black, not because it&#8217;s easy, but because it&#8217;s honestly one of my most flattering colors. I prefer classic lines, but I like to mix things up with interesting textures and details. Then, I like to add just a touch of edginess to my outfits to keep things fresh and current.</p>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-6139 size-full" src="https://www.thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Details-In-Monochrome-2-1.jpg" alt="Shellie" width="350" height="525" srcset="https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Details-In-Monochrome-2-1.jpg 350w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Details-In-Monochrome-2-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Details-In-Monochrome-2-1-97x146.jpg 97w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Details-In-Monochrome-2-1-33x50.jpg 33w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Details-In-Monochrome-2-1-50x75.jpg 50w" sizes="auto, (max-width:767px) 350px, 350px" /></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://www.thefabjourney.com" target="_blank">The FABulous Journey</a></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://twitter.com/ShellieBowdoin">Twitter</a> | <a href="https://www.bloglovin.com/blogs/fabulous-journey-13695931">Bloglovin</a> | <a href="https://plus.google.com/u/0/+ShellieBowdoin">Google+</a> | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/thefabjourney">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://pinterest.com/shelliebow/">Pinterest</a> |<a href="http://instagram.com/shelliebowdoin">Instagram</a></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><em>Jessica&#8217;s Style</em></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;">Here is an outfit that best describes my personal style. I love color, and feminine styles. The shape of this dress is fitted, I love a vintage inspired look with the color and v back. Dressing for my shape is part of my style as well as wearing shoes that are comfortable and stylish. The block heel, vintage inspired, is a versatile shoe! I do love my floral patterns as well!</p>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-6138 size-full" src="https://www.thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/9be1a110-8ded-4551-966d-b4352ce34bff.jpg" alt="Jessica" width="365" height="547" srcset="https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/9be1a110-8ded-4551-966d-b4352ce34bff.jpg 365w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/9be1a110-8ded-4551-966d-b4352ce34bff-200x300.jpg 200w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/9be1a110-8ded-4551-966d-b4352ce34bff-97x146.jpg 97w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/9be1a110-8ded-4551-966d-b4352ce34bff-33x50.jpg 33w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/9be1a110-8ded-4551-966d-b4352ce34bff-50x75.jpg 50w" sizes="auto, (max-width:767px) 365px, 365px" /></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.elegantlydressedandstylish.com/" target="_blank">Elegantly Dressed And Stylish</a></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://twitter.com/jessicajannenga">Twitter</a> | <a href="https://www.bloglovin.com/people/elegantlydressedandstylish-3325253" target="_blank">Bloglovin</a> |<a href="https://www.facebook.com/elegantlydressedandstylish">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://pinterest.com/jannenga/">Pinterest</a> |<a href="http://instagram.com/elegantlydressedandstylish/">Instagram</a></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><em>Dawn&#8217;s Style</em></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;">I think this look reflects my personal style.  Here I&#8217;m wearing all my favorite things: flared jeans, cool shades, and kick a** boots! I&#8217;m also loving revisiting the deep burgundy lipstick shades and black chokers of the 90&#8217;s!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-6140 size-full" src="https://www.thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/d4e916e3-8102-43c7-a2ae-16fe469b996b.jpg" alt="Dawn - Fashion Should Be Fun" width="350" height="278" srcset="https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/d4e916e3-8102-43c7-a2ae-16fe469b996b.jpg 350w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/d4e916e3-8102-43c7-a2ae-16fe469b996b-300x238.jpg 300w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/d4e916e3-8102-43c7-a2ae-16fe469b996b-184x146.jpg 184w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/d4e916e3-8102-43c7-a2ae-16fe469b996b-50x40.jpg 50w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/d4e916e3-8102-43c7-a2ae-16fe469b996b-94x75.jpg 94w" sizes="auto, (max-width:767px) 350px, 350px" /></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://fashionshouldbefun.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Fashion Should Be Fun &#8211; Style Over 40</a></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://twitter.com/FashShouldBFun">Twitter</a> | <a href="https://www.bloglovin.com/blogs/fashion-should-be-fun-11211957" target="_blank">Bloglovin</a> |<a href="https://www.facebook.com/fashionshouldbefun?ref=hl">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://pinterest.com/fashshouldbfun/">Pinterest</a> |<a href="http://instagram.com/fashionshouldbefun/">Instagram</a></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><em>Patti&#8217;s Style</em></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;">Here is a recent picture that I thinks expresses features of My Refined Style. I like to mix dressy with casual, have a fun and funky piece as the eye-catcher, and use jewelry to help define the look. I always want my shoes to have a little personality, like these black booties. And I like to incorporate trends (e.g., cropped trousers) with classic silhouettes.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-6144 size-full" src="https://www.thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/unnamed.jpg" alt="Patti" width="211" height="320" srcset="https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/unnamed.jpg 211w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/unnamed-198x300.jpg 198w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/unnamed-96x146.jpg 96w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/unnamed-33x50.jpg 33w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/unnamed-49x75.jpg 49w" sizes="auto, (max-width:767px) 211px, 211px" /></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.notdeadyetstyle.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Not Dead Yet Style</a></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://twitter.com/PattiNotDeadYet">Twitter</a> | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Not-Dead-Yet-Style/432604833493588" target="_blank">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://pinterest.com/sandypatti/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><em>Cherie&#8217;s Style</em></h3>
<div style="text-align: center;">This particular outfit I saw on Zara&#8217;s website and just knew I had to have it.  It was just so different, but yet so elegant and sophisticated.  I love to be comfortable in what I wear so this was right up my alley.  Pairing it with metallic slippers or slides seemed to be the perfect mix.  Casual elegance.  I have a difficult time defining my style, but people have described it to me as just that, casual elegance.</div>
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<div style="text-align: center;"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-6150 size-full" src="https://www.thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/DSC05086-2-e1469715127403-1.jpg" alt="Cherie" width="350" height="536" srcset="https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/DSC05086-2-e1469715127403-1.jpg 350w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/DSC05086-2-e1469715127403-1-196x300.jpg 196w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/DSC05086-2-e1469715127403-1-95x146.jpg 95w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/DSC05086-2-e1469715127403-1-33x50.jpg 33w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/DSC05086-2-e1469715127403-1-49x75.jpg 49w" sizes="auto, (max-width:767px) 350px, 350px" /></div>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><em>Andrea&#8217;s Style</em></h3>
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<div style="text-align: center;">This look captures and defines my style which is often a blend of dressy with a casual piece mixed in or visa versa. There is something about mixing casual and more dressy pieces and soft fabrics that makes me feel polished yet more comfortable. For me, being refined means wearing things you love but always feeling like yourself and exuding confidence.</div>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-6141 size-full" src="https://www.thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Onyinye-Modavracha.jpg" alt="Andrea - Living On Cloud Nine" width="350" height="686" srcset="https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Onyinye-Modavracha.jpg 350w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Onyinye-Modavracha-153x300.jpg 153w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Onyinye-Modavracha-74x146.jpg 74w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Onyinye-Modavracha-26x50.jpg 26w, https://thefabjourney.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/Onyinye-Modavracha-38x75.jpg 38w" sizes="auto, (max-width:767px) 350px, 350px" /></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://livingoncloudandreanine.blogspot.com" target="_blank">Living On Cloud Nine</a></h3>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><em>Trina&#8217;s Style (Our new co-host) </em></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;">This bohemian style dress, which I&#8217;ve layered over a peasant blouse, and paired with lace up flats definitely defines my everyday style.  I&#8217;m not afraid to layer, I feel comfortable running around in flats (even at my wonderful height of 5&#8217;3&#8243;) I am more likely to throw on a dress on any given day for just about any given occasion because it makes me happy!  I feel truly confident in this little number and just a bit unique which is what makes us all that much more refined.</p>
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